Wednesday, June 4, 2008

WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM? with Cathy DeBuono



Hello W.Y.P Viewers,

Well, I'm off to Japan at the end of this week, I'm sure I'll fit right in there... My film "Out at the Wedding" is the closing night feature at The Tokyo Gay & Lesbian Film Festival and they have invited me to come on out and be there for it. How cool is that?! If you don't know much about "Out at the Wedding" you can check out it's webpage, www.outatthewedding.com, it has been racking up awards all year the latest of which is LOGO's New, Now, Next Award - Audience Choice for Best Future Feature. You can see some clips of it on my myspace page (www.myspace.com/cathydebuono).

Anyway, saying all of that to say - this is why there is no new W.Y.P. for you this week. The good news is I'll be shooting footage of my journey in Japan and using it to create a prototype of a new online travel show that I'll be producing and co-hosting with my lovely fellow actress, Jill Bennett (In Her Line of Fire, Dante's Cove).

When I return from Japan, I will have a couple of days to recuperate before I'm back on a plane to Philidelphia to shoot "Tremble & Spark", the first of a trilogy of film noir shorts from producer Kelly Burkhardt where I will be playing detective Charlie Forest, and starring opposite Jessica Graham's (2 Minutes Later) villaness, Veronica Anderson

I plan to shoot footage there too, and aim to have new episodes of W.Y.P. ready upon my return, the second week of August. My mom and little sister plan to visit me there, and I plan to rope them into spilling their guts on camera... (insert evil laugh here). Should be fun - until next time!

Be Well,

Cathy DeBuono


Finally... "What's Your Problem?" is back with a brand new episode!

Episode 17: "Photos, Friends & Pheromones: Part II"

My Guests: artist, Kerry Krenzin
&
my dear friend, John W. McLaughlin

Episode 17, "Photos, Friends & Pheromones: Part II" picks up where we left off last week with Cathy and her guests - her dear friend and co-creator of their current project in development, Slate&Kelly (www.myspace.com/slateandkelly), John W. McLaughlin and artist/photographer Kerry Krenzin.

In part II, they get to a letter from W.Y.P viewer "hoops", who has questions about how to navigate dating when you bring mental illness and physical scars to the table.

The three out friends discuss this issue while Lucia takes a breather to deal with a tummy ache in the other room... (bad cheese?) When they decide to share their scars with us veiwers Cathy drops trou, and despite her on camera decision to edit it out... it some how makes the final cut anyway.

While the issues addressed today are certainly nothing to laugh about, Cathy and her guests find a way to keep us smiling... as usual.

If you have a question or issue you'd like Cathy to address you can email her at cathy@cathydebuono.com. Please indicate what name you would like her to use when addressing your letter publicly.

For news and updates about Cathy's vlog and other projects, keep an eye on her blog at www.myspace.com/cathydebuono

For more information on Kerry Krenzin, go to www.kerrykrenzin.com




Episode 16:
"Photos, Friends & Pheromones"

My Guests: artist, Kerry Krenzin
&
my dear friend, John W. McLaughlin


Episode 16, "Photos, Friends & Pheromones" picks up the fun right where W.Y.P. left off as Cathy hang's out and has cocktails with artist, Kerry Krenzin and her dear friend and actor John W. McLaughlin.

In addition to taking on viewer letters that explore such things as disappointing your parents in order to chase your dreams, and the gay ole issue of nature vs. nurture. The three out friends also take us with them to the recent "What's Your Problem?" party at The Standard Hotel here in Hollywood where Kerry's first photography exhibit made it's debut - and a ton of fun was had by all.




cathy debuono

If you have a question or issue you'd like Cathy to address you can email her at cathy@cathydebuono.com. Please indicate what name you would like her to use when addressing your letter publicly.

For more information on Kerry Krenzin, go to www.kerrykrenzin.com






For photos and dish from Cathy's WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM? party last week on the Sunset Strip, hosted by lesbian party godfather Mariah Hanson of The Dinah, just click here.


FROM THE ARCHIVES OF WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM?


In this episode, Cathy answers viewer mail and chats with comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer.




Episode: "Chow Not So Fun"

Guest: comedian, Erin Foley

In today's episode, Cathy talks with out comedian Erin Foley, who can currently be seen on LAST COMIC STANDING.



This one, is episode 13, "Chow Not So Fun". Cathy and comedian Erin Foley spend some time hangin' out. Despite having just survived a night of "chow fun's revenge", Erin manages to join Cathy for some reminiscing about how they met playing ultimate frisbee, they answer viewer letters and fruits and vegetables come into play when Erin and Cathy examine the large size of their hands.
Lucia (Cathy's off camera buddy) asks Cathy questions about learning how to ride while she's washing the "dinah dirt" off of her bike and Cathy's neighbor Daniel shows up right on time with cocktails.

After taking on three viewer letters and having a lot of laughs, Erin takes her first motorcycle ride ever on the back of Cathy's Triumph...

For information about Erin's upcoming shows and to see video of her stand up go to www.erinkfoley.com


Online Videos by Veoh.com

ABOUT CATHY:

While Cathy DeBuono is an actor, (And Then Came Lola, Out at the Wedding) she also holds a Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology and has several years experience as a Therapist. She's here now to take on your problems and deepest darkest demons...

Her video blog "What's Your Problem?" made it's debut on LOGO's AfterEllen.com in January and since then has become one of the site's most downloaded vlogs, and Cathy's mix of humor with a strong dose of heartfelt advice has won her the hearts of women of all ages around the entire world.

Nominated in LOGO's 2008 NEW, NOW, NEXT AWARDS for BEST. LESBIAN. VLOG. EVER, Cathy's "What's YOUR Problem?" will now be featured here on The Smoking Cockail.

For more information on Cathy DeBuono, go to www.cathydebuono.com and www.myspace.com/cathydebuono

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Those Who Seek to Oppose Us....

As many of you know, the initiative to permanently ban gay marriage has qualified for the November ballot. If voted for by a majority of California's, it will overrule the recent Supreme Court Ruling in favor of legalizing gay marriage. For the full story check out 365gay.com

Our public enemy number 1 is the following organization: ProtectMarriage.com

And the following are a list of ENDORSEMENTS for this org, and against our civil rights.

For a list of individuals and companies that have donated money, click here.

ProtectMarriage.com Coalition Endorsements (partial listing)

ORGANIZATIONS:
Focus on the Family - www.family.org (big surprise, right?)
Family Research Council - www.frc.org
Faith2Action (Janet Folger) - www.Faith2Action.org
Pacific Justice Institute - www.pacificjustice.org
Concerned Women For America - http://ca.cwfa.org
Center For Reclaiming America - www.ReclaimAmerica.org
California Family Council - www.CaliforniaFamily.org
California Family Alliance - www.CalFamAlliance.org
Capitol Resource Institute - www.capitolresource.org
Coral Ridge Ministries - www.CoralRidge.org
Proposition 22 Legal Defense and Education Fund
Alliance Defense Fund, serving as legal counsel - www.alliancedefensefund.org
Institute For Families and Taxpayers
Association of Christian Schools International, Northern and Southern Districts of CA
Values Advocacy Council - www.valuesadvocacycouncil.org
Family Leader Network - www.FamilyLeader.net
Holistic Integrated Service Foundation (HIS), Fullerton
Liberty Counsel - www.lc.org
Meridian Magazine - www.LDSmag.com
Eagle Forum of California - www.eagleforum.org
Eagle Forum of Sacramento
Advocates for Faith and Freedom - www.faith-freedom.com
Public Awareness Minstries
Preserve Liberty - www.PreserveLiberty.com
The Western Center for Law & Policy - www.wclplaw.org
Traditional Family Coalition - www.stmfusa.org
Traditional Values Coalition - www.traditionalvalues.org
Confraternidad Hispana Bautista de California (Hispanic Southern Baptist Fellowship)
United Families California - www.UnitedFamilies.org, www.UnitedFamiliesCA.org
Wycliffe
Legacy Law Foundation - www.LegacyLeader.com

PUBLIC OFFICIALS:

State Senators
Senator Dick Ackerman (R-Tustin) - www.senate.ca.gov/Ackerman
Senator Sam Aanestad (R-Redding) - www.senate.ca.gov/Aanestad
Senator Roy Ashburn (R-Bakersfield ) - www.senate.ca.gov/Ashburn
Senator James Battin, Jr. (R-La Quinta) - www.senate.ca.gov/Battin
Senator Dave Cox (R-Fair Oaks) - www.senate.ca.gov/Cox
Senator Jeff Denham (R-Merced) - www.senate.ca.gov/Denham
Senator Bob Dutton (R-San Bernadino) - www.senate.ca.gov/Dutton
Senator Tom Harman (R-Huntington Beach) - www.senate.ca.gov/Harman
Senator Dennis Hollingsworth (R- El Cajon) - www.senate.ca.gov/Hollingsworth
Senator Abel Maldonado (R-Santa Maria) - www.senate.ca.gov/Maldonado
Senator Bob Margett (R-Arcadia) - www.senate.ca.gov/Margett
Senator Tom McClintock (R-Thousand Oaks) - www.senate.ca.gov/McClintock
Senator George Runner (R-Antelope Valley) - www.senate.ca.gov/Runner
Senator Mark Wyland (R-Carlsbad) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Wyland

Assembly Members
Assemblyman Greg Aghzarian (R-Stockton) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Aghazarian
Assemblyman John Benoit (R-Palm Desert) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Benoit
Assemblyman Chuck Devore (R-Irvine) - www.assembly.ca.gov/DeVore
Assemblyman Bill Emmerson (R-Redlands) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Emmerson
Assemblyman Guy Houston (R-San Ramon) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Houston
Assemblyman Bob Huff (R-Diamond Bar) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Huff
Assemblyman Rick Keene (R-Chico) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Keene
Assemblyman Doug LaMalfa (R-Biggs) - www.assembly.ca.gov/LaMalfa
Assemblyman Bill Maze (R-Visalia) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Maze
Assemblyman Alan Nakanishi (R-Lodi) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Nakanishi
Assemblyman Roger Niello (R-Sacramento) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Niello
Assemblyman George Plescia (R-San Diego) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Plescia
Assemblywoman Sharon Runner (R-Lancaster) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Runner
Assemblywoman Audra Strickland (R-Camarillo) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Strickland
Assemblyman Van Tran (R-Costa Mesa) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Tran
Assemblyman Michael Villines (R-Clovis) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Villines
Assemblywoman Mimi Walters (R-Laguna Niguel) - www.assembly.ca.gov/Walters

Local Elected Officials
Imperial County Supervisor Wally Leimgruber (District 5)
Mayor Jeff Miller, City of Corona
Mayor Neil C. Blais, City Rancho Santa Margarita

APLA Fiesta Calendar Release Party with Adam Bouska

Photos courtesy of Brian Putnam Photography.


Sunday night, Fiesta Cantina hosted the 2009 Calendar release party benefitting APLA and featuring the photography of Adam Bouska.

The calendar is made possible by sponsorship from liquor companies and the models for each month are staff of the Fiesta Cantina. All proceeds from the sale of the calendars go to APLA.

There was also an auction of prints from the calendar, with bidding wars going on all around!  

There was a bevy of beauties all around, ice sculptures, tasty libations all up on the roof top.

The man of the hour Adam and I spent a good amount of time in the corner deconstructing the season finale of LOST.  By the way, those two web sites I told you about:  www.lostpedia.com  and www.thelostdiary.com.  Make sure you have an hour to kill before clicking on them!

There were four lesbians at the entire event.  I took advantage of the large number of boyz to spread my new mission:  Adopt a Lesbian.  After reading about the overwrought cliche of the "fag hag", and after many nights of too many straight girls at my beloved gay karaoke night, some of the boyz and I figured, "why not have a lesbian best friend?".  It's the new fag hag for the new century.  No one has come up with a term for it yet - and not to infringe on the sacred relationship all young teenage boys have with their straight best girlfriend - but once you grow up, find a lesbian!  I swear, we all play well together.  I, however, am not available, so don't ask. I am already serving that role to about 2654 gay men in the greater Los Angeles area.

I'm not sure where you can purchase these calendars, but I will let you know as they will make fantastic xmas presents. The models are just gorgeous (who knew so many hotties worked at Fiesta?) and the photos are fun and strangely intriguing.  Here's a taste.  For more of the calendar, and the inside scoop on the shoots visit Adam's Web Site and Blog.